As I’m thinking about potentially having sex with cis men soon, it’s really weird to think that this is now considered straight sex. And how different that meaning is for me now than what straight sex meant for me 5 years ago. Really makes you question the whole concept of straight vs queer sex and the idea of that as a dichotomy. But at the same time, I think it is important to be clear that a straight man can have sex with a trans woman and that doesn’t mean they’re gay. It’s all complicated and hopefully someday no one will care but here we are.