Here’s a helpful list of resources I will add to as I go:

Public Figures and Authors

• Alok Vaid-Menon – nonbinary transfeminine writer and artist.
• Jacob Tobia – genderqueer speaker, writer, and advocate
• Jeffrey Marsh – genderqueer host, author, public speaker, and youth advocate
• Grrl Alex (Drummond) – trans photographer with a beard

My favorite websites

• Everyday Feminism – my go-to resource for intersectional perspectives on everything from gender and sexuality to race and social justice
• Genderqueer.me – a blog on nonbinary issues
• Beyond the Binary – a magazine for UK Nonbinary people
• Seattle Nonbinary Collective – a local group that has meetups

101 Level Articles

• Understanding Non-Binary People: How to Be Respectful and Supportive – National Center for Transgender Equality
• Nonbinary 101 – from Seattle Nonbinary Collective
• Transgender 101: A Guide to Gender and Identity to Help You Keep Up with the Conversation – Everyday Feminism
• Transgender people: 10 common myths – Vox
• Gender Pronouns: A Guide for Faculty, Staff, and Allies – Caltech Center for Diversity
• How to Use Gender-Neutral Pronouns – Lifehacker
• Queer Sex 101 – Teen Vogue
• List of Genderqueer and Nonbinary Identities – GenderqueerID
• Stop Using Phony Science to Justify Transphobia – Scientific American

Topic specific advice

• Genderqueer dysphoria – Everyday Feminism
• I Think I Might Be Trans: 8 Important Notes On Questioning and 50+ Resources to Get You Started – Everyday Feminism
• Help, I think I might be non-binary, but how can I know? – Everyday Feminism
• Trans questions you may have been afraid to ask – Everyday Feminism
• Why I’m Genderqueer, Professional and Unafraid by Jacob Tobia
• How to write inclusive surveys and collect demographic data – Sarai Rosenberg
• Dating while Nonbinary – The Body is Not an Apology
• The Transgender Language Primer
• Gender-Inclusive Biology Curriculum
• Gender Inclusive Language in Research – University of Utah

Sex Guides

• How to have Lesbian Sex with a Trans Woman with a Penis – Autostraddle
• How to Have Sex with a Trans Person – Tobi Hill-Meyer
• Scarleteen – inclusive sex advice website

Medical Transition

• What does the scholarly research say about the effect of gender transition on transgender well-being? – Cornell University
• Myths About Gender Confirmation Surgery – HuffPost
• Summary of Clinical Evidence for GRS – Transgender Medicine Model NCD Working Group
• Guidelines for Primary and Gender-Affirming Care – Center of Excellence for Transgender Health, UCSF
• World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) Standards of Care
• Brief description of a Vaginoplasty procedure with drawings – Dr. Marci Bowers
• Overview of Vaginoplasty surgery (no pictures) – Healthline
• Guide to Feminizing Hormones – Seattle Children’s Hospital

Nonbinary Transition

• MTN Transition – Neutrois Nonsense
• Nonbinary Transition presentation by Neutrois Nonsense at Gender Odyssey 2016
• Nonbinary medical resources from Life Outside the Binary
• Can I Transition if I’m Nonbinary? – Ask A Gender Therapist
• 5 Myths about Nonbinary Transition – Neutrois Nonsense

For Parents

• Puberty blockers can be ‘life-saving’ drugs for trans teens, study shows – CNN Health
• Advice for parents of gender non-conforming and transgender children – Healthy Children
• Info on how gender identity develops in children – Healthy Children
• Parenting and Family – Gender Spectrum
• Gender Identity and Expression in the Early Childhood Classroom: Influences on Development Within Sociocultural Contexts – National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC)
• Transgender Kids Show Consistent Gender Identity Across Measures – Association for Psychological Science
• Martin CL, Ruble DN. Patterns of Gender Development. Annu Rev Psychol. 2010; 61: 353-381. – Peer reviewed study
• Gender Clinic Booklist and Resources – Seattle Children’s Gender Clinic
• Family Acceptance Project – San Francisco State University
• TransYouth Project – University of Washington
• Our Trans Loved Ones brochure – PFLAG
• Supportive Families, Healthy Children – Family Acceptance Project

For a longer, annotated list of resources, see this link.